
Marja sews all her clothes herself—her jeans and hoodies pass even the teenager test
Marja Niemi became passionate about sewing while expecting her first child and began making clothes for herself as well. Now, at 44, she still sews nearly all the clothes for her teenage sons. People often ask Marja how she became so skilled. She has some advice about that.
Marja sews all her clothes except for socks and tights. I also make clothes for my 14- and 16-year-old sons; they only want to buy sportswear ready-made.
It feels good when the boys turn to me first and ask if I can sew a piece of clothing for them. My teens still appreciate the clothes from mom’s atelier: jeans, t-shirts, hoodies, and even underwear. Most recently, I made a suit for my older son. He was very satisfied with the outcome. When making a pinstripe suit, matching the stripes requires precision. I found myself still pondering some areas I would have liked to refine.
I have always sought challenges to overcome. As a high school student, I created Kaffe Fassett’s intarsia knits, which could have dozens of shades of colors. I made ’90s-style sweaters for all my family members, and my parents still use them. I sewed my own prom dress, although its quality doesn’t stand up to scrutiny anymore.
My complete infatuation with sewing happened when I was expecting my firstborn. I started with cloth diapers, then moved on to baby clothes. I sewed a lot from recycled fabrics and my old clothes. It didn’t matter if something went a bit wrong.
When baby clothes no longer offered enough challenges, I began sewing for myself. When I was expecting my second child, I finished my dissertation. When asked if I wanted a watch or jewelry as a graduation gift, I wished for an overlocker.
“I have lamented that socks and tights still have to be bought from the store. By darning, I can also leave my mark on them.”
At long meetings I often have a knit with me, as the sound of a sewing machine would disturb others. The same applies on airplanes. I don’t watch TV without a knitting, hand sewing, or mending project to do. I have a strong need to create, my hands don’t like being idle. When my hands are working, I can focus better.
I have lamented that socks and tights still have to be bought from the store. By darning, I can also leave my mark on them. Initially, I patched soles with round jersey patches inspired by the Sormustin crafts blog. Then the holes and wear transformed into clouds, strawberries, and balloons. The patches are usually hidden from view, but you can always delight others with pictures of mended sock soles on Instagram.
The initial excitement of a new idea is so addictive that I don’t want or can’t stop creating, even though I may not actually need more clothes. The unpleasant phases include tracing patterns, and cutting pattern papers is downright frustrating. I don’t like working with paper, and paper crafting isn’t my thing. When fabric comes into play, it’s a completely different story.
This is a hobby that produces necessities. Or, well, sometimes I knit and crochet plush toys for my own pleasure. Also, the t-shirt with a portrait of Minna Canth and her quote, “All women should not do handicrafts” on it was not strictly necessary. I tend make enough crafts for others too.
The strangest thing I’ve sewn is a doll resembling Kie von Hertzen, the guitarist of Don Huonot, which I made for a friend. The Kie doll was, of course, dressed in a blazer, skinny jeans, a black beanie, and glasses. This was 25 years ago, but the doll is still around.
Through sewing, I have also found a way to help. I have made things like patchwork quilts for hospital neonatal units with friends I’ve met in Facebook sewing groups. The tiny preemie clothes were carefully designed with nurses to precisely meet the needs of the little ones.
“I have a secret: I always read the instructions carefully. I study illustrated guides and learn something new each time.”
The best way to learn is by doing, including making mistakes. People often ask me how I’ve managed to make clothes that are considered difficult. I have a secret: I always read the instructions carefully. I study illustrated guides and learn something new each time.
It doesn’t matter if you sometimes have to undo, fix, and adjust. Fine-tuning details is wonderful. And when I decide that the work is good enough, I don’t regret small mishaps afterward.
I hope that my ability to create with my hands lasts until the end of my life. I’d like to apprentice with a tailor, to make a man’s suit properly with all the details, guided by a professional. There is also a course in London where you can design and create your own high-heel shoe collection. That would be fantastic.